The second things start hurting, retreat. Basically, you're trying to teach the little muscles and sphincter around your rectum that they can relax when something tries to work its way up there. These can be things like fingers, butt plugs, or anal beads - whatever you're cool with. McBride pointed out, "the anus doesn't naturally self-lubricate the way the vagina does." So the best thing you can do is experiment with smaller items before moving onto a full-on hard penis. The same is true for anal, except a bit more dramatic because as Dr.
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More than likely, you worked your way up to the full monty with some fingering or oral, and then putting a penis in your vagina for the first time was probably still a bit uncomfy and required some patience from all parties involved. McBride compared first-time anal to first-time vaginal sex. Kimberly McBride, assistant professor of public health at the University of Toledo, recently told that although "we don't have a lot of good scientific data about pain and trauma, a proportion of women are experiencing high levels of pain with anal intercourse because they're going straight into penile-anal sex and they're not able to relax, and aren't using appropriate lubrication." (More on the importance of lube, the holy grail of good anal, soon.)ĭr. SERIOUSLY, I WOULDN'T LIE TO YOU: ANAL SEX DOESN'T HURT spoke with some experts on anal sex and health to shine some light on an area that so rarely sees the sun. In fact, like all other sex things, it shouldn't hurt, so long as you're properly prepared. Just like it's probably not true that Stephanie was having it with Todd in sixth grade or whatever, it's also not true that anal sex has to hurt or be dangerous, at all. And then you just deal with all the insane injuries that happen later. I mean the rumor that it's always painful, but if you want to try it, you just sort of have to put up with it and dive into butt stuff, head- (or I guess ass-) first. I don't just mean the rumor that everyone said Stephanie from high school was doing it, or the weird, creeping thought that all your friends are secretly doing it behind your back (pun intended).
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Of all the sex acts out there you can try, anal sex comes with some of the most vicious rumors.